Everything that Sparkles…..
November 15, 2011
On Sunday, Sonje’ Productions had the pleasure of producing a birthday brunch for the talented Ms. Ikea Roxi. She is a new pop/r&b artist to hit the music scene and she’s from Baltimore. Besides turning 18, she also launched her new music video for her first single “Mirror”. Her talents vary from playing both the piano and the saxophone, acting, dancing, and singing. Everything That Sparkles was a joyous event at Milan Restaurant to celebrate a wonderful young lady; a star is born!
Thank you to JP Events, for our balloons, Pretty-n-Pink Cupcakes, Kelson and Porkchop from 92Q, and Media Minds for all your help.
Check out her single, “Mirror” and the behind the scenes of the making of the video…..
Celebrating 40 Years of Service- MTA
November 11, 2011
Come join Maryland Transit Administration as they celebrate 40 years of service. Next week, November 16th, we will be giving away goodies at two MTA locations. Cupcakes, popcorn, gift bags, cds, etc.
Johns Hopkins Metro Stop (8am-9am)
Cromwell/Glen Burnie (5pm-6pm)
A Star is Born….
October 23, 2011
I was out of town when I got a frantic call from my assistant, in the wee hours of the morning, on Thursday saying, “Julian is dead!” Those were not the words I expected to hear; when I heard them, they cut right through my dazed sleep, to my heart, and the tears started to flow. He had just texted me on Tuesday to tell me that he missed and loved me, and had a vision for his “Where Is Julian?” campaign that he wanted to share with me.
You see Julian was a former 92Q intern that I took under my wing. His charismatic spirit was evident the first day we had him in the studio. I was always tough on Julian, because he was a fearless college student, bright-eyed and busy-tailed, ready to face the world head on. He reminded me of myself at his age- presumptuous and driven. My tough love was to show him that he didn’t know everything, and that hard work was necessary to reap the benefits in any profession. He took a liking to me because I saw through the charm and demanded substance.
After radio, Julian helped me grow my company. He saw the harsh realities of the industry when he came to work one day and there wasn’t a morning show to intern for anymore. He was devastated. We had become a part of his life, and he was learning so much from each personality on the show. We had made such an impression on him that he talked about us all the time to other Morgan students, and they began to want to intern with me, because they wanted the same learning experience. Over the course of three years, I pushed and encouraged his ambition, but also brought him back down to Earth when I felt his head was getting too big. He was not just my mentee; he was my little brother. He would often talk about the future; he couldn’t wait to be successful, often saying to me, “Watch! I’m going to grow up and be like the guys you and your friends date.” I would smirk and reply, “Gotta get your weight up, youngin’.”
My humbling comments never deterred Julian; they made him strive for more. When Morgan State crowned him Mr. Morgan, he was determined to make an impression during his tenure. Bursting with ideas, he would sound them off to me on the phone to get my opinion and approval. He always wanted to check with me because he had so much respect for me, and vice versa. I always knew he was a star and that he would go far. He just needed a little guidance. His supercilious behavior was often deceiving to most, but underneath the façade was a young person hungry for direction.
Being Mr. Morgan was important to him, and he wanted to continue to build on that platform by creating his own lane to succeed. Thus, he created his “Where is Julian?” campaign to get the ball rolling. No one was going to hand him his stardom, so he was determined to pave his own way. Piggybacking on the momentum of his popularity, he began to put in the work. Part of me chastised him for not staying in New York to work with the NBA, but also I understood that Julian was a natural born leader. He wanted to make his own rules on his quest for fame and fortune.
Over the last few days, I’ve struggled to make sense of his untimely death, but I also know Julian wouldn’t want us to be sullen. He was a GOOD kid; quick to crack a joke and make you laugh, because he never took the hardships of life too seriously. He saw the positive of every situation. His death is still somewhat surreal to me, but my heart goes out to both families who lost their children. I’m sure Zoey Crumpton (18) was a smart young girl with her future ahead of her, and my Julian was one of the sweetest guys I knew. However, we never know what God’s plans are for our friends or us. Both students touched the lives of their friends and families, and that can never be taken away. It was an unfortunate, unforeseen accident. All that is left to do is honor both children with the good memories they bestowed on our lives. Celebrate them, because both are in heaven, looking down, with their hearts glowing for us.
Below is a link to the “WHERE IS JULIAN?” vlogs. A natural talent.
Product Junkie 101
October 17, 2011
I have to admit I am a product junkie. I have drawers full of perfumes, lotions, products that I really need to get rid of. What can I say, I like my options. Anyhow, the fall season is here and I have been in the stores trying on and collecting samples of some of the new “stuff” out there. My friends and I share our secrets, so here are a list of my favorite products for Fall 2011!
Price: $100
Found at: Nordstrom, Saks, Neimans, etc.
Yesterday I fell in love with Chanel’s National Make-up Director, John Fussell. I spent a day learning Chanel tricks and about their wonderful products; one being this eye lift cream. Overnight I saw the difference. Place it on your cheekbone, right underneath your eye, and see the difference. When you are over 30, and that means men and women, you need to take care of your eyes. We both get those horrible bags and circles. So men do not be afraid to purchase eye cream, it shows your age big time when you don’t!
Another Chanel tip for my ladies:
Mr. Fussell gave me a tip about choosing a blush. “The best blushes for your skin matches your fingertips.” Who knew!!
Price: $119
Found: Nordstrom, Sephora, etc.
One of my good friends put me up on this product. It has worked wonders for her skin, since she and I both have gotten spurts of adult acne, so I’m purchasing mine next week. It deep cleans your pores and it’s like you’re getting a facial everyday. The price was originally $149 but it has dropped to $119. They have even come out with a gray version for men.
Price: $49.50
Found: M.A.C store, Nordstrom, Saks, Neiman, etc.
Everyone knows the highlight of the holiday season is the MAC Holiday brush sets!!!! They will be available Oct. 27th and I have already pre-ordered mine because this season they are giving away a Mineralized Brush Set, which will be one of the three sets. The perk of mineralized brushes is that it gives you an airbrush look like the celebrities you see. One rep told me she has been with MAC for 11 years and this is the best brush set of all seasons.
Price: $55-$95
Found: Sephora and Nordstrom
My nose is super sensitive to perfumes. It has to be the right scent or I feel nauseous. Body, however, does the trick. It has hints of peach, sandalwood, rose, and vanilla. This delicious combination has Body flying off the shelves this Fall.
Price: $75
Found: Sephora, Saks, Bloomingdales, etc.
I am as sensitive on women’s perfumes as I am on men’s colognes. I can tolerate only a few. The last cologne I’ve loved was YSL’S Nuit De L’homme but Prada’s new fall cologne is a close second. Great to snuggle up to!
I Fall….for my men 2011
September 22, 2011
For the record, All Saints is officially my favorite store for men. The pieces, the style, and the cut are flattering for a man’s physique. So my selections for my favorite fall pieces may be a little bias, but at least you will be fly. This season it is all about plaid, cord, and hiking boots. From every price range, men can look slick.
PLAIDS, SCARVES, CORDS, BOOTS…….
Found at www.us.allsaints.com for $649
Found at www.neimanmarcus.com for $325
Found at www.target.com for $12.99
Found at www.saksfifthavenue.com for $1700
Found at www.neimanmarcus.com for $295
Found at www.us.allsaints.com for $150
Found at www.us.allsaints.com for $120.00 (various colors)
Found at www.neimanmarcus.com for $150.00
Found at www.gap.com for $49
Found at www.neimanmarcus.com for $275
Found at www.target.com for $54.99
Found at www.us.allsaints.com for $695
Found at www.target.com for $24.99
Found at www.saksfifthavenue.com for $465
Found at www.saksfifthavenue.com for $950
The Fall….2011
September 21, 2011
This Fall has some of the most gorgeous pieces this season. Whether it be the colors or the styles, it has definitely taken on a elegant but chic palette. 70′s chic has exploded! Even though I am not a fan of the flare pant for my physique, I do like a wide bell. Jeweled toned tops, hint of leopard print, wedge boots, capes, leather and fur tickle my fancy. Below are a few of my favorites for women from all price ranges. Men faves sure will follow….
JEWELED TONES, COLOR BLOCKING, CAPES, 70′s, LEATHER….
Found at www.neimanmarcus.com for $200
Found at www.shopbop.com for $295

Burgundy Snood
Found at www.topshop.com for $40
Found on www.neimanmarcus.com for $895
Found at www.hm.com for $9.95
Found on www.bcbg.com for $148
Found at www.neimanmarcus.com for $595
Found at www.topshop.com for $50
Found at www.usa.frenchconnection.com for $78
Found at www.anthropologie.com for $58
Found at www.Target.com for $14.99
Found at www.usa.frenchconnection.com for $198
Found at www.saksfifthavenue.com for $395
Found at www.usa.frenchconnection.com for $388
Found at www.neimanmarcus.com for $495
Found at www.anthropologie.com for $278
Found at www.zara.com for $69.90
Found at www.dakotacollective.com for $90
Found at www.bcbg.com for $278
Found at www.us.allsaints.com for $1450
FELA
September 17, 2011
I feel so late writing this piece, but it took me a year to see the Broadway musical FELA! Having been a fan of Fela Kuti’s music for some time now, the Broadway adaptation only enhanced my love and admiration for the passion, the courage, and vision of this musician and revolutionary. From beginning to end, it captivated me. I left DC’s Shakespeare Theatre inspired. One man, through his music, made a change. He wasn’t perfect. He loved his sex, marijuana, and lawlessness; but he cared about his land and his people. Through this musical, I learned things about Fela Kuti that I never knew before. His strength and his persistence; his raw energy and showmanship moved a nation to revolution, and made the world take notice.
Prior to Fela’s life and music becoming an artistic phenomenon in the big apple, I had stumbled across his music. I think an old friend of mine, world-renowned chef Marcus Samuelson, mentioned him to me one day over dinner. I eagerly went to find his music at the Tower Records on Broad Street, in Philly. I was anxious for something new and his music, The Best of Fela Kuti, quenched my desire. After the first listen, I instantly fell in love with the rhythm. After playing the CD over and over, I did a Google search and discovered “the man.” His life was a motion picture. So when I heard that Jay-z and the Smiths signed on to co-produce the stage play, I was elated. Their fame would help shine light on a man who was an influence to many of the artists we listen to today. All of Beyonce’s booty-shaking dance moves suddenly have a history and meaning, once you see Fela!
I was fortunate to have the opportunity to converse with the play’s producer, Steve Hendel, afterwards. We shared a moment about how he, too, was moved by Fela’s album, The Best of Fela Kuti, and that that CD is what inspired him to even produce the musical. I told him that seeing the performance made me understand the music more. He said that his desire to understand Fela’s words lead him to do the research, and that after reading about his life, he wanted to share Fela with the world.
I won’t give the whole play away, but there is a moment when Fela says, “The music will live forever.” Even though Fela is long gone, his music does live on, and still leaves more to be discovered. Through watching the musical, I learned about a force that educated and changed Fela’s life- an African-American woman named Sandra Smith (now Sandra Isidore). The love they shared fueled the revolution, and transformed him from a popular musician to an icon. For opening night in Washington, D.C, the real Ms. Isidore, humbly, made an appearance.
To me, life is all about exposure and experiencing new things. This play was an experience. It will be like no other play you have seen, particularly ones the Black community typically embraces. Anyhow, that is another conversation! If you are interested in seeing this play, it will be showing at the Sidney Harman Hall, located in Washington D.C, thru Oct. 9th. Click here for more info: http://www.theatreindc.com/playdetail.php?playID=479.
Also, if you want a 20% discount on tickets, use code Feladc20.
Click here to see an original performance from the real Fela Kuti in 1971. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-SQH94Pifc
Urbane Chic Part Deux
August 23, 2011
August Events…..Urbane Chic Day Experience
August 22, 2011
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